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		<title>Saying it Well: Touching Others with Your Words</title>
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		<dc:creator>Charles R. Swindoll</dc:creator>
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				<description><![CDATA[I wrote my new book primarily for you—for speakers in general and preachers in particular. After five decades of honing the craft, I feel that I’m finally ready to put into print much of what now works for me as a preacher and public speaker. I wanted to communicate everything I’ve learned, but that’s unrealistic. [&#8230;]]]></description>
					<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I wrote my new book primarily for you—for speakers in general and preachers in particular. After five decades of honing the craft, I feel that I’m finally ready to put into print much of what now works for me as a preacher and public speaker.</p>
<p><a href="https://store.insight.org/p-1257-saying-it-well.aspx?utm_source=pastorsblog&amp;utm_medium=web&amp;utm_content=post&amp;utm_campaign=Store-Catalog" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><img fetchpriority="high" decoding="async" class="alignright wp-image-548 size-medium" src="https://pastors.iflblog.com/wp-content/uploads/sites/7/2012/01/Saying-It-Well-210x300.jpg" alt="Saying It Well" width="210" height="300" srcset="https://pastors.iflblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/01/Saying-It-Well-210x300.jpg 210w, https://pastors.iflblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/01/Saying-It-Well-281x400.jpg 281w, https://pastors.iflblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/01/Saying-It-Well-82x117.jpg 82w, https://pastors.iflblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/01/Saying-It-Well-320x456.jpg 320w, https://pastors.iflblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/01/Saying-It-Well.jpg 446w" sizes="(max-width: 210px) 100vw, 210px" /></a>I wanted to communicate everything I’ve learned, but that’s unrealistic. Some things—let’s face it—can’t be put into words on a page; they must come naturally from within. Each of us has an inimitable “style” that is ours and ours alone. But there are some things I mention that might be of value to you; I certainly hope so.</p>
<p>Our own individuality is what makes our message compelling and our delivery unique. Let’s never forget that. From this point on, it’s important that you release yourself from the straitjacket of others’ expectations. Furthermore, you must determine to overcome your fear of not sounding like some other person you admire. You can learn from each of them . . . but don’t waste your time trying to be them—or acting a little like them. That’s phony. The goal, remember, is authenticity. Until you free yourself from that trap, you’ll not find your own voice. I repeat: you are YOU and none other. Never forget that each insight or principle or suggestion—whether from me or another author—must be fitted into YOUR style and YOUR way of expressing yourself when YOU speak or preach.</p>
<p>How I wish someone in my formal education had told me these things! Because no one did, I spent far too much time trying to look like or sound like someone I wasn’t. Thankfully, all that is behind me—and I hope the same is true of you. If not, maybe my book will help to free you to become the preacher God created you to be.</p>
<p>I pray <a title="Saying it Well" href="https://store.insight.org/p-1257-saying-it-well.aspx?utm_source=pastorsblog&amp;utm_medium=web&amp;utm_content=post&amp;utm_campaign=Store-Catalog" target="_blank" rel="noopener">the book</a> is a major encouragement to you and an enhancement of your pulpit ministry.</p>
<p>—Chuck</p>
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